Looking For A Job? 5 Networking Tips For Introverts

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If you’re on the search for a new job, the concept of “professional networking” is likely to arise, but for many of us, the idea of reaching out to people and asking for help with a search can feel intimidating, particularly if you’re an introvert.

As a career and interview coach who also happens to identify as a major introvert, I can relate, as there are few activities I find less enjoyable than networking. Yet learning to effectively network can help you stand out in the saturated job market and find your next role quicker.

So what strategies are available to make networking more enjoyable if you’re an introvert? Let’s dive in and find out.

5 Networking Tips For Introverts

Whether you identify as an introvert or are simply averse to networking, give these five tips a try:

1. Prioritize one-to-one conversations.

For starters, an assumption many job seekers make is that professional networking requires you to attend in-person events like industry conferences and career fairs, which couldn’t be further from the truth.

Although I frequently speak to large audiences and appear on top podcasts, I truly thrive on deep, one-to-one conversations. Because I know many fellow introverts can relate, I encourage you to prioritize one-to-one relationships as you network your way to your next job.

2. Tap into your existing networking

Another assumption job seekers make about professional networking is that it requires reaching out to total strangers to ask for their time without providing anything of value in exchange. While this is in fact one approach to networking, you don’t have to “cold” contact people to find a new job, and I don’t recommend it.

Instead, I appreciate my mentor Jill Katz’s professional networking strategy, “relationship searching,” as it focuses on building and cultivating relationships rather than merely looking for a job. This can be a safer, and far more enjoyable, way to approach networking.

The following are a few pre-assembled lists of relationships you may wish to cultivate and tap into as you search for your next job:

  • Facebook friends
  • Instagram followers
  • LinkedIn connections
  • Current and former colleagues
  • Friends and family
  • Alumni networks

3. Leverage virtual and asynchronous networking.

If you’re a fellow introvert, you’ll likely relate to my dislike of in-person networking events. Thus, when it comes to informational interviews, you may consider leveraging video conferencing platforms or phone calls, as they remove the pressure of face-to-face conversations. A bonus of virtual networking is you can have your talking points at the ready.

In addition to virtual networking, you might want to give asynchronous networking a try, which can include emails, texts, or LinkedIn messages. These methods can be particularly effective when attempting to connect with busy executives, as they may not have the capacity for a 20-minute networking call but can respond to a few questions between meetings.

4. Embrace the silence.

As you experiment with various networking formats, don’t be afraid of a little silence. As an introvert, I truly love quiet, but I also struggle at times with the infamous “awkward silence” that can accompany networking.

A helpful technique that I gleaned from my counseling studies was to count to 10 before talking during an “awkward silence.” This will not only calm your nerves but allows adequate space for the other speaker to share their thoughts without feeling rushed.

5. Set small, achievable networking goals.

Finally, consider setting a networking goal to keep you motivated. This may look like spending X minutes per day networking or reaching out to X people per week from your dream company list. Importantly, you want to keep your goal realistic to avoid feeling overwhelmed as you search for your new job. You’ve got this!

About Dr. Kyle Elliott

About Dr. Kyle Elliott

Dr. Kyle Elliott is the founder and career coach behind CaffeinatedKyle.com. His expertise is in Silicon Valley and high-tech. As a result of working with Dr. Elliott, senior managers and executives have landed jobs at Meta, Amazon, Google, and nearly every other tech giant you can imagine. A trusted career expert, Dr. Elliott’s words have been featured on Business Insider, CNBC, CNN, Entrepreneur, Fast Company, Fortune, and The New York Times, among dozens of other leading publications. He has been recognized as a Best Career & Interview Coach, Best Resume Writer for Silicon Valley/Tech Managers & Executives, and LinkedIn Top Voice (the platform’s highest honor). Schedule a consultation with Dr. Elliott.
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